I think I’m going to use “Attraction, not Action” instead of “Orientation, not Behavior” to talk about asexuality from now on. I accidentally used it in a Facebook post this morning because I was in a hurry and couldn’t remember the “orientation” line. Seems to work better anyway. Shorter to type, too. Plus, it avoids the objection that some other people have about asexuality being called an orientation because it’s not exactly “oriented” in any particular direction.
I’m sure I’ve heard it before, though. I just can’t figure out where.